Most often than not, people associate being sexy with weight. A woman’s perfect body has long been an obsession for both men and women. Men fantasize about it, while women constantly yearn for perfection to conform to what society defines as “sexy.”
But what does being sexy mean?
Society tells us that sexy is the 36-34-36 body proportion. But in reality, being sexy has little to do with weight, and people, time and again, have broken the box and individually defined what being sexy is.
American socialite Paris Hilton once said, “No matter what a woman looks like, if she’s confident, she’s sexy.”
That’s why being sexy goes way beyond being size 0, and so here are some ways to look and feel sexy regardless of your looks and weight.
- Believe you are sexy, and you will be
Have you ever seen women who exude overwhelming sexiness even without putting in much effort? It’s because they believe they are sexy, and that seals everything. The very first thing to do to look and feel sexy is to believe that you are and will be.
Indian political figure Mahatma Gandhi said, “A man is but the product of his thoughts. What he thinks, he becomes.”
- Get your beauty A-game on
While it is true that being truly sexy goes beyond looking sexy, it is still important to look sexy to feel sexy. You have to put in effort to improve your general appearance, which includes your health, skin, hair, make-up, and style of dressing.
Remember, it instantly lifts you and makes you confident when you look your best.
Leave no stone unturned and be beautiful and sexy in every way, girl!
- Build your own dynamic attractiveness
Being sexy lies in the power of one’s innate charisma, which involves the manner of expressing emotions.
According to Psychology Today, sexiness has something to do with the way someone moves. Dynamic attractiveness is basically all about body language. It says a woman’s underlying personality is integral to her overall personal charisma.
- Use that brain!
Perhaps many would agree that the sexiest part of a woman’s whole being is her brain and the way she thinks.
Grammy award-winning hitmaker Alanis Morisette put in a good quote to illustrate this: “And all I need now is intellectual intercourse, a soul to dig the hole much deeper.”
According to BetterHelp.com, a person will only be attracted to another once he knows how she thinks. Basically, attraction cannot happen if minds are not engaged, regardless of how beautiful someone looks.
More often than not, two people may be attracted to each other initially for a while but lose it once they discover the other’s thinking capacity. In the same manner, two people can also develop a desire for each other eventually, even if they do not realize it at first, because of their intellectual connection.
So yes, it is a major turn-on if you are ahead in the mind game.
- Humor
Yes, laughing more and being happy make you instantly beautiful and glowing. No one wants to be with someone who feels she carries the world on her shoulders. Not only will you attract quality potential mates, but your network of friends will also grow exponentially when you exude that energy of positivity.
Hey, everyone loves a good sense of humor.
